Monday, January 26, 2009

Underappreciated ..

Today when I was in a train, I saw a young school kid walked into the train compartment and sat next to the window. Suddenly, a lady ran towards the window and wave to him eagerly. She seems to be the mother of the kid. However, the kid was very unmoved as long as the facial expression was telling me.

How many times do we feel the same? Food on table, somebody to pick you up when you need to go somewhere and etc. How do you feel about it? I guess when the good deeds were done many times, you grew out of it. It became mundane and you think it's alright not to express any thanks. That's because it's either you did not ask for it, or it's his or her job to do so.

We tends not appreciating things that someone close to you had done for you. I can't explain why it happens, but I think some saying is correct. Things that you don't get easily it's always your top priority. For those you can get easily you will park them aside. Human behavior can be very mean and cold.

I wish for all those who do not know how to appreciate your family, friends or even your lover, take a good look at yourself. Do you deserve it? It's not a matter your family or friend's responsibilities, but they did it out of something. It's call love. If you do not know what it means, then you are merely not living.

4 comments:

Kaleena said...

That is an awesome thought! I know what you mean. Sometimes we get going through life and don't take the time to appreciate the things and the people that we should. I am going to link to this post on my blog, I hope you don't mind

Bahija said...

wei wei wei ...i appreciate you ah ...u so nice, nak helped me while u were in London :) , saya yang abused you-haaaa

rotitelur said...

I appreciate my mum but she easily get upset or upset me, what should I do?

Kiasu-Ching said...

Roti telur, sounds like the choice of words that both of you are using may not be the 'right' choice. Next time, when you hear something nasty from your mom, take a deep breath. Tell her the weather is very nice, the toilet is very clean, her hand is very soft. Try to take her off from the 'sarcasm'! :P